How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 00:45
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Is it okay if I sleep with my brother without my husband knowing?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Making more friends is a goal.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Why do I feel bad when I see white girls dating black guys, am I racist?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
If women aren't shallow, why do most tall, good-looking men have girlfriends?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Procrastinates a lot.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
How do you weigh in on the Vance-couch conversation?
Ask yourself:
What I need from you?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Why do men cheat on their wives with someone extremely unattractive?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Hangs out with loser friends.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
That's it for today.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Does not procrastinate.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.